Show Luo (罗志祥) - Corner of Love (爱转角) lyrics/ English translation

Show Luo (罗志祥) - Corner of Love (爱转角) lyrics/English translation/pingyin

我伪装着
Wo wei zhuang zhe
I'm still pretending

不露痕迹的 
Bu lu hen ji de
Without leaving a trace

想在你身边 静静的陪着看着天边
Xiang zai ni shen bian, jing jing de pei zhe kan zhe tian bian
Wishing to be your side, accompanying you in silence as we gaze at the skies

骑着单车 往前行进着
Qi zhe dan che, wang qian xing jin zhe
Riding on a single bike, slowly moving forward

某个路口 爱在等着
Mou ge lu kou, ai zai deng zhe
At one of these junctions, love is waiting

你往前走 不回头看了 
Ni zai wang qian zou, bu hui tou kan le
You continue moving forward without a backward glance

记忆的笑脸
Ji yi de xiao lian
Memories of your smiling face

缓缓的敲着我的琴键
Nuan nuan de qiao zhe wo de qing jian,
Warmly looking at my piano.

我不舍得 让你孤单单的
Wo bu she de, rang ni gu dan dan de
I can't bear to leave you feeling lonely

我爱你的 心牵挂着
Wo ai ni de, xin qian gua zhe
I am still unable to let go of what I love about you

心不再拚命躲 不去害怕结果

Xin bu zai ping ming duo, bu qu hai pa jie guo
The heart is no longer hiding desperately, no longer afraid of the conclusion

假设有个以后 你会怎么说
Jia she you ge yi hou, ni hui zen me shuo
What if I told you that we have a future, what would you say?

一直想跟你说 幸福不再溜走
Yi zhi xiang gen ni shuo, xin fu bu zai liu zou
I always wanted to tell you that from now on, happiness won't just disappear 

下个路口 你会看见爱有美丽笑容
Xia ge lu kou, ni hui kan jian ai you mei li xiao rong
At the next junction, you will find that love has a beautiful smile

爱转角遇见了谁 是否有爱情的美

Ai zhuan jiao yu jian le shei, shi fou you ai qing de mei
At the corner of love, who did you meet? Was the love as beautiful as it's supposed to be?

爱转角以后的街 能不能有我来陪
Ai zhuan jiao yi hou de jie, neng bu neng you wo lai pei
Can I be the one to accompany you on the road after the corner of love?

爱转角遇见了谁 是否不让你流泪
Ai zhuan jiao yu jian le shei, shi fou bu rang ni liu lei,
At the corner of love, who did you meet? Did he make you cry?

也许陌生到了解 让我来当你的谁
Ye xu mo sheng dao le jie, rang wo lai dang ni de shei
From strangers to familiarity, will you let me be the one?

我不让爱掉眼泪 不让你掉眼泪
Wo bu rang ai diao yan lei, bu rang ni diao yan lei
I won't let love cry, I won't let you cry

现在永远
Xian zai yong yuan
From now till forever

你就是我 就是我的美
Ni jiu shi wo, jiu shi wo de mei
You are my definition of beautiful

心不再拚命躲 不去害怕结果
Xin bu zai ping ming duo, bu qu hai pa jie guo
The heart is no longer hiding desperately, no longer afraid of the conclusion

假设有个以后 你会怎么说
Jia she you ge yi hou, ni hui zen me shuo
What if I told you that we have a future, what would you say?

一直想跟你说 幸福不再溜走
Yi zhi xiang gen ni shuo, xing fu bu zai liu zou
I always wanted to tell you that from now on, happiness won't just disappear

下个路口 你会看见爱有美丽笑容
XIa ge lu kou, ni hui kan jian ai you mei li xiao rong
At the next junction, you will find that love has a beautiful smile

爱转角遇见了谁 是否有爱情的美
Ai zhuan jiao yu jian le shei, shi fou you ai qing de mei
At the corner of love, who did you meet? Was the love as beautiful as it's supposed to be?

爱转角以后的街 能不能有我来陪
Ai zhuan jiao yi hou de jie, neng bu neng you wo lai pei
Can I be the one to accompany you on the road after the corner of love?

爱转角遇见了谁 是否不让你流泪
Ai zhuan jiao yu jian le shei, shi fou bu rang ni liu lei
At the corner of love, who did you meet? Did he make you cry?

也许陌生到了解 让我来当你的谁
Ye xu mo sheng dao le jie, rang wo lai dang ni de shei
From strangers to familiarity, will you let me be the one?

我不让爱掉眼泪 不让你掉眼泪
Wo bu rang ai diao yan lie, bu rang ni diao yan lei
I won't let love cry, I won't let you cry

现在永远
Xian zai yong yuan
From now till forever

你就是我 就是我的美
Ni jiu shi wo, jiu shi wo de mei
You are my definition of beautiful

爱转角遇见了谁 是否有爱情的美
Ai zhuan jiao yu jian le shei, shi fou you ai qing de mei
At the corner of love, who did you meet? Was the love as beautiful as it's supposed to be?

爱转角以后的街 能不能有我来陪
Ai zhuan jiao yi hou de jie, neng bu neng you wo lai pei
Can I be the one to accompany you on the road after the corner of love?

爱转角遇见了谁 是否不让你流泪
Ai zhuan jiao yu jian le shei, shi fou bu rang ni liu lei
At the corner of love, who did you meet? Did he make you cry?

将寂寞孤单作废 让我来当你的谁
Jiang ji mo gu dan zuo fei, rang wo lai dang ni de shei
I will eradicate all loneliness and sadness, just let me be the one

我不让爱掉眼泪 不让你掉眼泪
Wo bu rang ai diao yan lei, bu rang ni diao yan lei
I won't let love cry, I won't let you cry

现在永远
Xian zai yong yuan
From now till forever

你就是我 就是我的美
Ni jiu shi wo, jiu shi wo de mei
You are my definition of beautiful

The only constant in life is change.

I thought I’ve mentally steeled myself for the eventual break-up, but I still felt the pain like a dagger through the heart. No amount of preparation will ever help soften the blow of losing the one you love and consider yours to someone else.

But it gets worse.

The dagger is going to twist and embed itself further in your heart every time you see them enjoying each other’s company. See her smiling and laughing at him in a way that was once reserved exclusively for you. See her touch him in that affectionate way that used to lead to a long, passionate kiss shared only between lovers who knew each other well.

All of that, all shattered in an instant.

But if you truly love someone, you’ll want him or her to be happy, regardless if it’s with you or someone else. I never thought of myself as a noble person, but it turns out that I actually am. It will hurt to see them together but pain is part and parcel of life. We will learn from it, and sometimes it will change us.

Do not attempt to fight that change. I choose to believe that everything happens for a reason, and likewise, everybody comes into our lives for a reason. We have to be thankful for everybody that was, or still is in our lives because in the grand scheme of things, they all play or played a part in molding us into who we are destined to be.

“When things seem as if they’re falling apart, they might just be falling into place.”

Whether or not she’s going to be a big part of my life in the future, I really do wish them all the best. She deserves to find true love and have her fears and wounds be smoothened by someone who’ll take the time to understand, console and love her with all his heart.

I hope he won’t make the same mistake I made.

And if he breaks your heart, I’ll be there to pick up the pieces and make you whole again.  

I promised to always be there for you, and that’s what I’m going to do.  

I’m a fool, aren’t I?

-sigh-

Friendship.

“Let’s just be friends.”

The sentence that everybody dreads to hear.

Can ex-lovers really just be friends though?

I don’t have an answer to that. It depends on the tone of the break-up, of the personalities of the two people in question and many other factors like their friends, environment and lingering feelings for each other.

A clean break is always better because it results in distance that will help mend a broken heart faster.

But what if you can’t bear to leave her?

She was such a big part of my life. I’ll go as far as to say that she was quite possibly my everything. My life revolved around her, even though she might not have realized it. I meant every word I said when I told her that I love her and that I’ll try my best to make her the happiest girl in the world. She was, and still is, my number one priority.

Towards the end of the relationship, there was this question that I wanted to ask her but never had the courage to. Oblivion is bliss, they say.

I would have taken a bullet for her without hesitation.

But would she have done the same?

We are the engineers of our own fate. I still believe in that, but sometimes certain things are out of our control.

“If it’s meant to be, it will be.”

This is what all of my friends have been telling me, and that is the motto I’m going to live by.

I’m leaving it all up to fate and hoping it deals me a nice hand this time round. An Ace of Spades will be the best, but if that’s too much to ask for…

A Queen of Hearts will be fine too.

"我真的没有天份,安静的没这么快.

       我会学着放弃你是因为我太爱你"

Translation: I really don't have the ability to get over you so fast. I'll try my best to forget you, but only because I love you so much.

Closure... or not?

Definition: Closure - a feeling that an emotional or traumatic experience has been resolved.

I don't think closure will come so fast.

It’s amazing what can happen in just a day or two, especially when you’re determined to get to the bottom of things.

And for me, I’ve dug so deep I’ve reached rock bottom.

“You’re the sweetest guy I’ve ever met” is something she told me after we both mutually agreed that we’ve reached the end of the line. I’m sure she intended it as some sort of assurance that I had tried my best to keep the relationship alive and it wasn’t my fault but to me, it’s only a confirmation that I fucked up real bad.

I was the sweetest guy she had ever met, and I still couldn't get her to stay with me.

It's 8.44 a.m. in the morning here in Singapore and the gloomy rainy weather matches my current feelings. I feel like an uninspired wreck. I don't feel like socializing, my appetite has dulled and I'm just going through my daily routine everyday like a robot. Many activities I once enjoyed have lost its appeal and I find myself just reminiscing about the past and how happy we were together. 

She's like that with the other guy now. 

Maybe this would never have happened if I had given her more attention. I do blame myself for neglecting her at times, but I've accepted that we would never have lasted anyway. We were too fundamentally different; she's a beautiful mosaic butterfly that flutters around and attracts attention everywhere she goes, while I'm just a typical dull worker bee that fulfills the duties assigned to him. It was only a matter of time before our differences became too painfully obvious and the only solution was to let go.

Time is the best medicine for all heartache, and I'm sure I'll eventually move on and find another girl whom I'll fall head over heels over once again. This time, however, I'll be much more careful and wary. Once bitten, twice shy.

I guess the worst part of this break-up is that at the beginning, she begged me to never leave her. She told me that all her previous partners left her because they couldn't stand her, and she didn't want that to happen with me. I didn't want to make a promise I might not be able to keep, but I'm never the type to give up without a fight. What I did tell her was that I'll always be by her side as long as she wants me to be.

I intend to keep that promise because I still love her... albeit now as a friend rather than a life partner. 

"I loved you with a fire red, but now it's turning blue." - Apologize, Timbaland

Free-falling.

We should never use the three sweetest words on Earth, "I love you" lightly.

It gives rise to expectations. It makes people think of spending the rest of their lives with someone. It makes people long for something that is just out of reach.

"Sometimes, we create our own heartbreak through expectations."

Loving someone is a monumental - and sometimes painful - task.

It hurts to love someone so much that you can't imagine not having him or her in your life when that possibility is getting bigger and bigger each day. It hurts to think that all the goddamn happy memories that you used to play over and over again in your mind before you go to sleep with a smile may soon become the nightmares that plague your dreams.

Loving someone is a weakness.

You are blinded to their flaws, and even if your close family or friends might repeatedly warn and advise you to stop being a slave to the heart, you are unable to let go. We keep believing that things are going to take a turn for the better, so much so that it crushes us when it doesn't.

Hope is a cruel, cruel thing.

Living creatures all resist change. We crave that sense of familiarity and cling to it like a lifeline. This is why many of us get back together with our ex's even though we know that nothing is going to change. We want to settle back into the old same routine because it comforts us and allows us to feel that the ground we are walking on is solid once more, even if it's all just a mere illusion.

I guess you can say that deep down, we are all too weak and scared to admit to ourselves when an integral part of our life is over because we dread taking that next step into the unknown, where everything will be foreign and alien to us.

I admit that I'm a coward when it comes to love, but who isn't?

We are all scared of taking the leap of faith and diving headfirst into a pool that might not even be filled with enough water to help you break your fall. Love is what gives you the courage to recklessly do so, while your sense of survival will cause you to hesitate.

Love always wins.

If you never try, you never know right?

But once you take the plunge, there's no way back.

You are in free-fall, and the only way is down, all the way hoping that you didn't make the wrong decision.

Every story has a beginning; this is mine.

I'm Kenneth, and this is what love is to me.

I'm just your average, everyday run-of-the-mill guy.

Hello!

I don't consider myself particularly good-looking, striking in any manner (besides for my height, heh) or an extremely sociable person.

I'm literally the epitome of normality.

I had - and admittedly, probably still do - an outlook on love that will probably rival or even put to shame that of some girls. I wanted a fairytale (-laughs-) relationship; one without any quarreling, squabbles or miscommunication. I wanted a partner whose goals and character aligned with me entirely so that we'll see eye to eye on every matter. A partner who's accommodating, passionate, logical, smart and yet still a true romantic at heart.

As we grow older and mature, our idea of the perfect partner changes, but we never truly let go of the hope that we'll find the ever elusive "The One".

Basically, every one of us has high expectations when it comes to our ideal partner. If we do some actual soul-searching, we'll realize that we never truly believed that we'll end up with that someone we had envisioned all these years. It's merely a bitter-sweet dream we cling tightly onto as we find it hard to come to terms with the harsh reality. That person might not even EXIST. Sure, out of the 7 odd billion people in the world, perhaps a handful of them might meet our every criteria. But what are the chances that we'll actually get to meet them, and then get to know them? Perhaps we've walked past the person destined to be our soul mate in the train station a few times and were none the wiser.

Everybody wants to find the perfect partner. Everybody yearns to be with someone who complements them to the T, and with that yearning comes expectations, and normally, only disappointment follows. Why? Because frankly, reality almost always never measures up to expectations.

That, my dear random readers from hopefully all around the world, is what you must always remember.

Now... the million dollar question.

What exactly is love?

Love is not about finding someone who molds and fits into you perfectly like a long lost piece of a jig-saw puzzle. Nuh-uh, that's way too easy. And things that come easy... well, they don't last. People start taking things for granted because they are so comfortable and assured in their position, and that's when everything starts going downhill. It all starts small. A hint of disregard or lack of sparks due to neglect... That's all that's needed to trigger a landslide that will bury and leave you six feet under, bewildered and wondering what went wrong.

Don't make that fatal mistake.

By then, it's far too late to try and make things right.

Love is something that everybody has to fight tooth and nail for every inch of the way because that's the only way to make it work and KEEP IT THAT WAY. Look at it from this angle: love is a mini see-saw, and to keep it healthily afloat off the ground, both parties have to put in equal effort and maintain it at that level. There can be no giving up or unequal work distribution because it will cause one party to be heavily burdened by stress as well as insecurity and cause the relationship to tilt unsteadily, at the verge of collapse.

No relationship is perfect. Love is definitely NOT perfect.

But luckily, perfection comes in many different shapes, form and sizes.

What the hell am I talking about?

Love is about finding perfection within imperfection.

Perfection is a mere perception. An illusion, if you'll have it. One's man treasure is another man's junk, and vice-versa. There is no unanimous definition of perfection on anything. I may deem an uncut diamond as perfect as I prefer it in its natural state with all its "flaws" but others may prefer a polished one.

You just have to learn to overlook the flaws.

Love comes in stages. Even the most powerful forces of nature like hurricanes take time to build momentum, and love, the most powerful emotion known to man, is no exception.

Everything starts somewhere. There has to be a sense of attraction, and this magnetic pull is normally focused on something, be it physical appearance, presence or personality. When we start to fall in love with the person, we have to be aware if we're falling for the real person or just our IDEA of him or her. There is a distinct difference.

When we are attracted to someone, we tend to block out all the negatives and focus on the positives. That's what makes love so potent and lethal. It sometimes blinds us to the cold hard truth. After the relationship ends abruptly, painfully, only then do we realize that the person we were in love with was not who we thought to be at all.

What happened...

I always thought my type was the shy, quiet and sensible girl with a hidden layer of sensuality underneath.

Then this girl, this wonderfully loud, playful and quirky girl walked into my life and left me absolutely floundered. There was just something about the way she carried herself, about the way she talked, about the way she smiled that captivated me and made me her prisoner.

I was a goner the first time I saw her.

After the awkward first stage, we quickly grew closer. We talked, we dated and even though things started getting serious, doubts still lingered in my mind. She was the total opposite of my ideal girl; will things really work out?

Hence, I approached the relationship in a very careful and somewhat protective manner, and it made her insecure because she didn't understand why I wasn't introducing her to my friends. She questioned herself, and the insecurities turned her to seek solace and comfort somewhere else with her friends.

During that time, I slowly grew to love her more. Every part of her. I looked forward to hearing her voice over the phone or meeting her in person. I wanted to see her smile at me, hold her and just spend time with her doing anything in the world. It pained me to feel that she no longer seemed to care about me as much and was distancing herself away from me.

I've always thought myself to be the sensitive and understanding type, but it turned out that I fell prey to the same trap as many other guys. I was too comfortable with the relationship, and just assumed that she'll never stop loving me. I took her love for granted, and even though I thought I was doing enough, I was missing the small details that were really bothering her.

Sometimes, I'll go missing for hours on end as I was busy doing other things or on the computer with my other friends. I wasn't there when she just needed someone to listen to her rant, and if I could do it all over again to make things right, I would in a heartbeat.

Luckily for me, this is not the end of my story. I realized my mistake when I felt us drifting further and further apart and poured my feelings out to her one night. We both acknowledged that there's a problem with our relationship and are in the process of trying to make things right. There's too much that needs fixing, and it remains to be seen whether we can get back to where we used to be, but I'll be damned if I give up.

This relationship has taught me a lot. Like what I mentioned before, love on its own is never perfect.

We are the engineers of our own fate; we call the shots. 

We are the ones who decide if a relationship is worth fixing.

We are the only ones with the power to make love perfect. 

And for the rest of couples out there, I wish you all the best in crafting the perfect love for the both of you.

And for you singles, here's a parting piece of advice.

"We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love."

- Tom Robbins

My name is Kenneth, and this is my story.